Let’s Talk about Social Confidence
Do you struggle with your social confidence?
You have done everything in life you were supposed to – get the top grades, get into a great school, and land a high-paying job. You may even have some fulfilling hobbies on the side.
But deep down, you can’t help but feel miserable. It doesn’t make sense until you realize…
You have no social life. Friday rolls around and you realize you made no plans over the weekend. It was the same last weekend. “Why am I so lonely? Why don’t I have any friends?” you think to yourself. Meanwhile, you see on Instagram your friends from high school having the time of their lives – going to amazing concerts, camping out of the country, having amazing dinners, traveling, the list goes on. Yet here you are alone, about to do what you usually do – reach for the remote and watch a show half-excited while wishing you had other plans.
So you try going to more social events. You join a group class or a rock climbing gym and meet some new people, but nothing flourishes into friendships. Or you text your good friend Bobby to hang out, but he doesn’t respond or he says he’s busy. No matter where you go, nothing quite sticks.
“Why is my life like this?” you think to yourself. “Is there something wrong with me? How can I change?”
I See You…
And I totally get you. Because I was once there before too.
Hi, I’m Andrew. I followed all the “right” rules, and in my mid 20’s, landed a high-paying job. I was happy at first, but after working just a couple months and despite the paycheck…I realized how empty I felt. I had no social life.
“I don’t go out because I am ambitious” I told myself. But deep down, I knew I wanted to go out more. I wanted to experience life: all the cool concerts, dining experiences, travel, and the great outdoors with some friends. I just didn’t know how. But instead, I would be in the same position every weekend – alone by myself with a bowl of popcorn and Netflix. This applied to holidays too (4th of July, New Years). Not fun. Not fun at all.
This is FAR from how I pictured my 20’s would go. Increasingly frustrated, I tried everything to feel happier – meditations, personal growth via podcasts and books, therapy, and spiritual workshops. While all that helped a little, I never felt fully happy. I never felt deeply fulfilled – the gnawing emptiness and loneliness still chewed away at me.
Until one day, after some time and work, everything changed.
A New Beginning
I am now happier than I’ve ever been. My calendar is so full of social events I have to turn some people down sometimes to recharge myself. I have a soul-level girlfriend that I am over-the-moon for that I try all the new things and go on adventures with.
While it’s not perfect, I am more abundant in all areas of life than ever.
There were many trials and tribulations to get here, times I was uncertain if I’d ever have a regular group of friends, a partner, and rich life experiences you can only have if you reached for it.
And that’s why I started this website – to tell you, that if you want all the fun experiences in life – the friends, the soul-level partner, the adventures, the SUPER exciting experiences, that you can have it. Even if you have crippling doubt. Even if you have no friends, never dated before, and are starting from scratch.
And you won’t lose your ambition or goals in the process. In fact, that may even grow.
To help you with your journey, I have created a free, useful guide which you can access below to build your social confidence and have the AMAZINGLY abundant life you deserve. You don’t want to miss it.👇🏼
